Intimacy and Relationship Coaching
You already know something needs to change.
I'm Tia, and I can hold a safe space for you to explore what's not working in your life when it comes to dating, relationships and personal intimacy.
Deep down we all want to feel aliveness, the pleasureable and loving feelings we are wired for.
If you are experiencing difficulities or stagnation in this area of your life, that's OK, because many of us weren't taught how to form connections that flow and grow easily, connections that fulfil our wants, needs and desires. Plus, times have changed and it can feel even harder to connect and sustain intimacy.
What I've come to understand from exploring this work — is that intimacy with another person tends to follow intimacy with yourself. With your own sense of what you actually need to fulfil your desires. (You really do know how to attract and create what you want).
If you are feeling called to do some work on yourself in this area - I offer a contained space where we can do exciting work together. Let's get things moving in this area, because I know how much you want what you want.
The people I work with come with all kinds of things.
Some have lost the spark — in their body, in themselves — and don't know how to get it back.
Some are carrying shame around desire, pleasure or sexuality that has followed them for years, holding themselves back from what they actually want.
Some are single on the dating merri-go-round, whilst others want to go deeper with their partner.
Others have done bodywork with me and are ready to talk about what their body is releasing.
I work with men, women and non-binary people — single, partnered, somewhere in between.
Whatever brought you here, nothing is off limits in our sessions. Desire, pleasure, shame, fear, grief, anger, the things you've never said out loud — all of it is welcome.
The Somatica Method
The approach I use is a revolutionary USA method called Somatica.
It's not just talk therapy. It's somatic and works with what the body is actually experiencing — what starts to shut down in our body as we get closer to what it is we want.
At the heart of Somatica is the concept of core desires — the deep, specific things each of us needs to feel truly alive in intimacy, in relationship and in life.
These aren't generic, they're uniquely yours. And understanding them — including how they were shaped by early experiences and childhood patterns — is one of the most illuminating things you can do. Suddenly a lot of things begin to make sense.
The method also works with gently activating erotic energy in the body, and with understanding your erotic mind — what turns you on, what shuts you down, and why. Sometimes we use role play, not in a theatrical sense but as a practical tool — so you actually get to practice asking for what you want, expressing a boundary, or receiving something you've been afraid to receive. The body learns by doing.
It is trauma informed, which means we move gently and at your pace, never pushing past what you're ready for.
Combined with my intuitive training, what I bring to this coaching work is genuinely layered. We're not just having a conversation. We're working at every level where patterns live and activating your deeper knowing and confidence in your style of connecting and relating.
Here's what I see happen when people do this work.
They get playful. They come alive in a way they'd forgotten was available to them. They start to understand what they actually need — and find they're more able to ask for it. They feel better in their body. They get excited about their life and connecting with others again.
Some rekindle something in a long relationship, or find their voice after years of going along with things. Others step into a confidence — turned on, self-expressed, genuinely themselves — that surprises even them.
Sometimes the work brings a different kind of clarity. One that's harder, but more important. I've worked with people who came in very much in their head — circling the same thoughts, unable to land anywhere. The work is about getting out of the head and back into your body. When you do that, your knowing comes alive in a way you didn’t expect — from finally feeling into what’s true for you.
Whatever the work brings up — joy, grief, revelation, relief — it brings you back to your truth. That’s where real change happens.
Trust Yourself
The question isn’t whether something needs to change. It’s whether you’re ready to trust that you CAN get a different result in this area of your life.
I'm here to show you how you can tap into something juicer, more real, more liberated and empowered.
LET'S GO!
Working Together
Coaching sessions are 1:1, held online — which means wherever you are in Australia, or beyond, we can work together.
Single Session $220— 1 hour 15 minutes
For when you have something specific to work through, or you want to experience the work before committing to a package.
Package of 4 Sessions $780 — 1 hour 15 minutes each
Weekly or fortnightly, tailored entirely to you. Four sessions gives us the depth to go beyond the surface and work with what’s underneath.
I love our sessions, you are so caring and open and I feel I can say anything to you and you see me and hear me. I got so much from today. I feel clearer and have more trust that everything will work out.
Nyree
What a Session Looks Like
Sessions are 1:1, held online currently.
They are conversational, embodied and completely confidential. We go at your pace and nothing is pushed. There’s space for whatever needs to come up.
If you're not sure where to start, a complimentary 15 minute call is the easiest first step — we can talk through what you feel and what might serve you best.
If you're curious about doing this work alongside a partner, or in a group setting, Ian and I also run The Love, Sex and Power Lab — a 7 week online course for anyone to own their power in relationships
→ Find out more under Courses
At the end of my coaching session with Tia I was feeling such a great sense of relief. I gave myself permission to be who I am meant to be in all areas of my life.
Belinda B